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All this talk about birth and babies makes me happy and excited to have my own children one day as well. It seems beautiful at the moment and all because it makes me think about the future and how having a child can change my life hopefully for the better. Even though birth is an extremely painful process I think you get so much joy from the baby being in the womb to the baby in your arms that it makes the couple of hours in labor worth all the pain compared to the years of happiness that you could get from being a mother. Although people associate birth with happiness I’m just one of those people who focus on the worst, having a child is an extremely big responsibility and I know that. The chances of me messing up are too high and that scares me so I usually like to just baby sit or take care of them for a little wile but being the parent is too much for me. Birth gets me excited but not that excited because reality always comes to me and scares that idea away.
Another thing that always comes to mind when I hear of birth or children is how I’m going to treat them. I constantly hear people say “well when I have kids there going to respect me, I’m not taking any of their bull shit, they already know.” It makes me laugh to hear this because I can already see that these people are just ready to have that power they want what their parents have over them. So I’m going to say the same thing as everyone else just a little different, When I have children they will get punished when they do something wrong but unlike other people my children will have tons of freedom because that’s how I was raised and appreciate the way I was raised it was very balanced so I’m going to do the same to my children.
In the future when I’m grown I know that my perspective is going to change, I will have more of a foundation to be confident in, and when the time comes I know I’m going to be excited for so long, excited to try for a baby, excited to be pregnant, have the baby shower, give birth and then watch them grown up. Overall I think birth is a wonder full experience just when the time is right and there is less of a chance for anything to turn out bad. |
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